By hard living I mean people who have abused alcohol and other drugs, have a history of violence either as a perpetrator or a victim or both, have uneven employment, have struggled with household or family relations, and tend to be politically alienated. They are looked down on as street people, poor white trash, homeless, disreputable, drunks, addicts, skid row bums, hobos, trashy women, sluts, bikers, vagabonds, the underclass, the ne'er-do-wells, the lazy, the no-goods, and on and on.
These are the people who will often come to a church or a charitable agency to get food, clothing, medical care, legal services, whatever, but there is perthaps no group so hard for the church to reach in order to involve them in the active life of the congregation. While many churches serve them, few include them in the participating membership of the community of faith. They are seen as winos, or trash, or street people, or something else, but not as brothers and sisters.
One of the reasons for this view is that they are often not the kind of persons that we relate to. Their drinking and drugging, their hygiene, their life-styles, their protest of respectability and middle class norms, their disdain for established church life, their unwillingness to participate in church or any other group except on their terms, their resourceful use of the age-old hustle and con, their occasional violence, their vulgarity, their plain four-letter talk, their unrestrained use of obscene gestures and raucous humor, their often loud and unabashed approach to conflict, their quick condemnation of the church as hypocritical and self-serving: these are but a few of the problems as perceived by respectable mainstream church-going people. The problem is that great truth can be found in these depictions, even though they do not characterize them all. Sometimes, too, which can be worse, they get saved, or baptized in the Spirit, and they join some "insufferable" fundamentalist congregation from when they then emerge as the true believers of the one and only righteous church with an absolute morality and an assured but exclusive route to heaven. No wonder such people are not only NOT sought out but avoided by churches.
This is a 3 part speech:
a) The first "open call" when visiting in jail. Usually Sat/Sun mornings @ that "teachable moment". PreacherMan Prison Ministries.
b) This is the bible study protion of the speech, handing out material and graded papers. Sharing the word of God.
c) This is the 2 weeks before they get out after 6 months incarceration. They have lost everything and need everything, plus a place to stay, heal, regroup and go back to the world of work, UA's, rules & responsibility. This is an inviation to the shelter.
SPEECH
I. I HAVE THE KEYS TO GET OUT OF HERE FOREVER! a) You will never have to come back here again. b) Do not have to sweat drug tests. c) Do not have to rely on your old Drug friends/family.
II. WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO LOOK FORWARD TO WHEN YOU ARE RELEASED? a) No job, home or vehicle. b) Strained or lost relationships with spouse. c) Lost custody of children.
III. WHAT WE OFFER: a) Food, clothing & shelter b) Job search, transportation & money management c) Housing search, build credit & income maintenance.
Support system, friends that care, will help and want to see you do well.
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